6. Get closer to your guy and break away.
If you want to flirt with your guy and you want to send a cue that you are ready for a kiss, then you should try to get closer to him. Briefly, look at his lips and break away from him, to tease him a little. By sending out this message, he would know that you are waiting for him to make the first move for a kiss.
7. Choose songs for flirting.
While you are listening to the radio or through your music CD collections, try to identify songs that can make you more confident to flirt. By doing this, you would have the confidence to flirt with any person that you are interested in, once you hear one of the songs. Choose songs that you really like and are lively, so that you can also become more energetic.
8. The right earrings for flirting.
There are different types of earrings that you can wear today. However, if you want to wear something that can enhance your capability of flirting with a guy, then you should wear dangling earrings. This is because these types of earrings can make a guy notice your neck’s smooth curves. This is a subtle way to show some skin and it is pretty effective too.
9. Watch more movies about love.
Movies that are about love usually start with a guy meeting a girl at the first time. During this stage, you can actually see lots of techniques in flirting, which are executed by the actors of the film. Take note of them, since these are well thought of by the directors and script writers.
10. Keep a few candies or gums inside your purse.
Whenever you go out, most likely, you would bring a purse or a small bag with you. To make it easier to catch a guy’s attention and start a conversation with him, you can always ask him if he wants a candy or a gum. This is a very good icebreaker, and it is not too obvious that you like to get to know him better.
11. The bumping method.
If you are at a crowded party, and you want to spark up a conversation with a particular guy, then you can use the bump method for it. All you have to do is to run into the guy and apologize to him for being too clumsy. Smile while you are talking to him, and introduce yourself.
12. Compete with the other person.
Competing against each other can set off sexual signals between the two of you. You can challenge the other person to play darts, a game of pool, a card game, or even wager on something. By doing this, you won’t just have fun with one another, but it can also bring you closer to each other.
13. Don’t become tensed.
Being tensed and crossing your arms is not a good way to start flirting with another person. With that, you need to maintain a smooth body language, so that your flirting would become more effective. While doing that, you can lead towards him and try to imitate his body language subtly.
14. Flirting is fun.
Flirting is something that is fun, which is why it is not a good idea to take it too seriously. When you take it too seriously, your expectations may become too high, which can get you disappointed in the end. By doing it for fun, your flirting would bring out positive effects, since you would come across as a confident person who simply wants to have some enjoyment.
15. Don’t forget to give compliments.
Compliments can get you anywhere as far as flirting effectively is concerned. Everyone loves to receive compliments, which is why it is one of the best ways to spark up a good conversation with another person. Just make sure that your compliments are not too personal and that they are genuine.
16. Not all flirting efforts work.
Always remember that there may be times when a person may respond negatively or reject your flirting. Whenever that happens, the best thing to do is to walk away and look for another opportunity or another person to flirt with. Don’t try to persist, since a negative response does not mean that the other person is just playing hard to get.
17. Only flirt with a person that you are interested in.
It is not a good idea to flirt with someone whom you are not interested in going on a date with. This is because it can lead him or her on; and, it would not be a pleasant experience for the person when you turn them down. Thus, make sure that you are applying your flirting skills only to those you want to date.
18. When someone flirts with you and you are not interested.
There may be times when a person that you are not interested in flirts with you. When this happens, there is no need to do something that can insult the person. All you have to do is to make up an excuse or simply walk away, in order to send out the message that you are not interested.
19. Go on spontaneous dates.
Going on spontaneous dates with the person you really like is a good way to be with him. To do this, you can simply ask him if he wants to accompany you to the nearest ice cream shop, and do it in a way that he won’t be able to say no. By doing this, you can spend more time with him, and apply your flirting skills while you are enjoying your ice cream.
20. Tease a guy you just met.
In meeting a guy for the first time, in most cases, he would try to tell you his first name first. When he does that, try to make him repeat himself by indicating that you were not able to catch it the first time. When you do this, he would repeat himself and lean towards you. Once he does that, give him a smile, to indicate that you are joking. This would be a good ice breaker, which could result in an interesting conversation later on.
21. Practice your flirting skills.
There are lots of ways that you can practice your flirting skills. For one, you can do it while you are eating at a restaurant, and you see a beautiful girl at a distance. Whether you plan on getting to know the other person or not, practicing your skills can boost your confidence, which can help you in talking to the girl that you really like.
22. What to do when you are interested in a guy across the bar.
When you spot a guy that you are interested in across the bar, one of the best ways to get his attention is to look at him. Let him catch you looking at him and smile before looking away, to send the right message across. By doing this, he can see it as a go signal to approach you.
23. Build up your confidence.
You have to take note that in order for your flirting efforts to pay off, you have to have self-confidence. One of the best ways to build up your confidence is to wear clothes that really suits you well. Aside from that, you can also aim to become fitter. Boost your confidence, so that you won’t have second thoughts in flirting.
24. Signs that the other person is flirting with you.
Aside from learning about different ways to flirt, it is also essential to know the signs that would tell you that the other person is flirting. Some of the signs to look out for would be touching her hair, increased eye contact, sitting or standing closer to you, touching you, laughing at your corny jokes, and such. By recognizing these signs, it would make you more effective on how to react to it, especially if you also like the other person.
25. Make sure to flirt only in appropriate places.
There are places that are appropriate to flirt with another person in, and there are also those that are not. Some of the places that you can apply your flirting skills in would be in nightclubs, parties, and in informal events. On the other hand, you should refrain from flirting when you are at a funeral or inside the church.
26. Show your interest.
Whenever the other person is talking about his or her experiences, you should show genuine interest in it. To do that, you have to indicate that you are listening attentively by asking to follow up questions or by saying something related to his or her story. By doing that, your date would be encouraged to continue talking.
27. Memorize some jokes.
Memorizing great jokes can actually go a long way when it comes to impressing a person that you just met. Practice telling your jokes to your friends, in order to see if they are really funny. Keep in mind though that telling a joke that is so bad can also come out as good at times.
28. How to send out a signal that you want to kiss the guy.
There may be times when your guy is not confident enough to kiss you, or he is just too focused talking to you that he may not be able to think about kissing you. To send out a signal about this, you can actually touch your teeth or your lips with your tongue, while looking at him. This is something that is simply irresistible to most guys, which is why it works most of the time.
29. Know the difference between flirting and sexual harassment.
Flirting is playful methods of letting the other person know that you are interested in him or her. Making comments that are sexual in nature, or touching another person inappropriately, may make the other person lose interest in you. Aside from that, it can even be considered as sexual harassment, which can put you in big trouble.
30. Don’t try to immediately achieve lots of things with flirting.
When it comes to flirting, you have to go slowly with it, so that you can also see if the other person is really interested in you or not. Learn about the signals of flirting, and watch the other person’s body language. If he or she shows signs that they are interested, then that is the time to take the next step, which is to ask them on a date.
31. Wearing red clothing.
Studies show that most men are attractive to red clothing, especially when it is worn effectively. Thus, if you don’t have red clothes, then it is time to buy some of them and try it out on your next night out. By wearing red, it would make you look hotter to the other person, aside from the fact that you would also become more confident, knowing that it attracts most men.
32. Spray some of your favorite perfume at the back of your neck.
Whenever you are on a date with a guy you really like, one of the things that you can do to flirt with him is to lean your back towards him. To make it more effective, sprinkle some of your perfume at the back of your neck. By doing this, he would be able to catch your scent and make him hug you.
33. Let the guy know that you noticed his shirt.
Lots of guys like to wear shirts that are imprinted with their favorite bands, sports team, or even movie characters. Ask the guy some questions about it, so that he would know that you noticed his shirt. When you do that, it would boost his confidence more, since it shows that you are really interested in him.
34. It is not bad to become obvious from time to time.
There are flirtatious actions that are obvious but are also effective. An example of it would be throwing a ball or a Frisbee towards a person you are interested in. Being obvious is not bad, especially if you can pull it off effectively. Smile when you are doing it, so that the other person would find you cute, and would positively respond.
35. Don’t forget about social networking.
There are lots of social networking sites that you can find on the internet today. One example of it is Facebook; and, one way of using it to flirt with someone you know is to post a comment in one of his pictures, and ask him what it is all about. After responding to your question, tell him to elaborate his answer to you in person, to prompt him to hang out with you.
36. Handwritten notes can still be effective.
Lots of people say hi or communicate through text messages these times. To make your approach more unique, you can actually slip a handwritten note to his or her pocket when you are at a party or a get-together an event. This is so much better than text messages, since not most people are doing it today.
37. How to tell if a shy guy likes you.
Shy guys are hard to crack at times, but there are actually signs that can tell you if he is into you. For example, if he seems to be very good in talking to everyone else except you, then he is shy and he likes you a lot. Aside from that, it is also possible to see him smiling at you at a distant, but would not look at you when you are near him.
38. Flirt with your guy before seeing him.
If you have a date with a guy that you are interested in, it is also a good idea to flirt with him, even before the date. One of the ways to do it is through text messages. For example, you can tell him what color you want him to wear since it makes him look more attractive. When you do that, it already sets up the flirting mood before seeing him, which can make your date more interesting.
39. Flirting only with your eyes.
If you want a guy to make the first move and approach you, you can actually flirt with your own eyes to prompt him to do it. If the guy is across the bar, walk by him, and look at him up and down while slightly smiling. By the time you reach your seat, he should already be following and ready to talk to you.
40. Your nails can also help out.
When it comes to flirting, you can also let your nails help out with it. Make use of a very feminine color to paint your nails with. Make sure that it matches perfectly with your dress. By doing this, not only would he be able to notice how attractive you are, but it would also boost your confidence in flirting with him.
41. Make him want more.
At the end of the date, before going inside your place, give him a kiss and tell him you had a great time. This would make him want more, which would prompt him to set another date with you. Do it in a subtle way, so that it would become more effective.
42. Let him do something for you.
If your date is kind of a shy person, then you have to come up with ways to make him more comfortable, especially if you really like him. Ask him to do something for you, such as grabbing a table napkin or ordering something at a restaurant. If he really likes you, he would be glad to do it for you, and it would boost his confidence.
43. How to flirt effectively.
Always remember that your flirting efforts would become more effective when you are more confident. Aside from that, you should also not be afraid of taking risks. Moreover, to make your flirting work, you should be positive in doing it as well as enthusiastic.
44. Once you are already in a conversation.
There are some people who may already know how to flirt at a distance, but do not know what to do when they are already talking to the other person. To carry a conversation, there are actually lots of things that you can talk about. Talk about the surroundings, your experiences, and share your opinions. Don’t forget to ask questions as well, so that you would also know the other person better.
45. Flirting is also having fun.
Flirting should be fun. Enjoy it and it would become more effective. Be spontaneous in doing it and do not forget to be playful and light hearted. By doing all these things, you would not just enjoy flirting more, but it would also get you closer to the other person without really even trying too hard.
46. Props can also come in handy.
Whenever you leave your place and you are thinking about meeting someone new, then do not forget to bring a prop or two. Props can come in handy, especially when you are stuck in talking about something. Aside from that, it can also make the other person ask you questions or talk about certain things related to your props. Some examples of it would be an interesting book, magazine, personalized cap, and an unusual jewelry.
47. Drive him crazy with a secret that does not exist.
Once you have become more comfortable in talking with each other, tell your guy if you can tell him a secret. When he affirms, tell him that you changed your mind about it. This move will drive him crazy in wondering about what you were going to say. It can lead to a more fun conversation and get you closer together.
48. You can always make the first move.
Once you see signals that the other person is flirting with you, there is no need to wait for him or her to make the first move. You can always do it if you want to. Just a simple hello would start up a great conversation. Make sure to prepare some questions, though, so that you can carry the conversation properly.
49. Listening is one of the keys to flirting effectively.
Listening effectively whenever the other person is talking can help you in making your flirting more effective. This is because it can help you respond well to what he or she is talking about. Aside from that, it would also draw them to you, since every person loves to be heard.
50. The proper way of maintaining eye contact.
Maintaining eye contact with the other person is essential to let him know that you are into him. However, you should do it gently. In other words, look at his eyes for not more than 3 to 4 seconds and glance away. Staring is actually not a good way to impress your date, especially if you have a blank stare.