How To Be Her Best Date Ever

Chapter 2: Don’t Go Overboard

Yes, you want to impress her, you want to give her an amazing experience that she will look back on fondly.

But...don't forget the fact that you have to start out by going on a first date. (Without that, you can't get to the other dates.)


So...don't go overboard with the first date. As I touched on above, if you make it too elaborate or over-the-top, you will scare her away.
Again, keep in mind, she's not your wife, or even your girlfriend. You're not giving her a 5-year anniversary date here.


If you want any of the above to be a possibility in the future, or even if you just want to see her again after that first date, you must not do anything to scare her away nor make her feel "creepy." (You never want to make a woman feel creepy. That is the kiss of death.)
That means, you do not want to have a flock of doves flying out of anything. No smoke messages or banners passing by, up on the sky. Don't show up to her front door with an entire flower garden.


And, don't do the "candlelight dinner while Barry White plays in the background" either. Save that stuff for future dates. It's really not "first date" stuff. She hardly knows you at this point. And besides, doing that kind of stuff will make her wonder about your motives and intentions.


Yes...you do want to show her that you made an effort, that you care about her enough to not just wing it. But, don't make her think you're about to propose to her.


I'm sure you get the idea. I am going to give you specific examples of what you can do, later in the report anyway. So don't worry. After you're done reading this report, you'll have a pretty good idea of what to do, and what not to do. Now, let's talk about the overall process of what you should be doing...

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