How To Improve Your Life And Prosper At Whatever You Wish To Do

Chapter 12: Guilty As Charged: When The Problem Is You  

124  Accept  The  Blame   In  real  life,  accepting  the  blame  may  not  be  that  easy  to  handle  but  refuting  the   allegations  only  messes  things  up  too.  Help  the  situation  by  not  only  accepting  the   charges  but  also  cooperating  with  the  authorities  to  resolve  the  issue.


125  Do  Not  Make  Up  Stories   It  is  but  natural  for  people  at  fault  to  fabricate  lies.  It  is  a  common  reaction  but  yet   again,  it  only  stalls  solving  the  problem.


126  Give  In  To  An  Intervention   Again,  this  may  not  be  easy  as  it  sounds  but  you  must  recognize  that  people  are  only   trying  to  help  you  get  better.  If  you  are  with  children,  think  about  how  the  situation   may  be  interfering  with  their  lives.


127  Offer  The  Truth   A  situation  is  never  resolved  with  just  catching  culprits  red-­‐handed.  In  fact,  if  you   find  yourself  in  such  situations,  always  explain  yourself.  Not  that  it  would  take  the   blame  out  of  your  hands  but  at  least,  it  would  shed  a  better  light  on  why  it  happened   to  you.


128  Subject  To  Correction   Rehabilitation  does  not  occur  within  days.  In  fact,  depending  on  the  severity,  you   might  even  be  sent  to  prison,  treatment  facility  or  detained  in  your  own  house.   Either  way,  punishing  you  for  it  is  often  the  only  effective  way  of  making  you  realize   what  you  committed.


129  Do  Not  Lose  Hope   Hoping  for  a  better  ending  is  not  a  crime.  Wanting  a  way  out  of  the  situation  is  not   bad  either  because  honestly,  it  will  all  happen  in  time.  Hope  is  not  a  bad  thing  to   hold  onto,  in  fact,  it  may  just  be  what  keeps  you  alive.


130  Do  Not  Linger  On  The  Past   After  serving  time,  completing  treatment  or  healing  from  the  wounds,  walk  away   from  the  situation  with  head  held  high.  It  may  not  be  the  happiest  of  thoughts  but   do  not  let  the  ordeal  take  over  your  life.  Make  peace  with  it  and  start  fresh.


131  Steer  Away  From  Trouble   By  all  means,  prevent  yourself  from  going  down  the  same  path.  Do  not  retrace  your   steps  or  simply,  walk  away  if  you  find  yourself  back  in  the  same  place.

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